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I just want you to have as much earth-shattering sex as your schedule allows, okay? Michael, as usual, was supportive and caring, calming me down from across the world with reminders that this was what we had set out to experience.

Let me save you some time. He explained to me what swinging was, but I furthered my knowledge by reading everything I could. I really feel that it strengthens every relationship.

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In all honesty, I knew about swinging solely from the punchlines of sitcom jokes, as the wacky solution for failing marriages. I exclusively date swingers now because I meet maeried much better class of fitst. I then told him that if he had just talked to me about it, it was something I could be open to. My husband knew that I was bi-curious when we met, so on the anniversary of our first date, we decided to explore and went to a swingers club.

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It offered the privacy I craved to mask the shame I felt for participating in something society told me was wrong. I needed to believe him when he said he was cool with our dynamic—that I was hooking up with more people than he was. Up until that point, I thought swinging was only for weird!

If you have a good marriage, dip your toes in the water. I loved the experience of being able to have sex outside of my relationship. One day he forgot to log off the computer and I looked at his browser. It will only make things worse.

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Looking for toys that are good for couples to play with? Swinging changed me personally for the better.

My proposal—to go outside our relationship without actually giving up on what we had—appealed to him. Also, you need to have conversations with your spouse or partner before you go into it.

We knew we wanted to experiment sexually with others, but no one had ever admitted to me that they were non-monogamous a term I only learned many years laterso we had no choice but to stumble ahead without any labels or mentorship. The swinger couples I know have absolutely amazing marriages. I was scared that he would change his mind about being with me after I followed through with firstt, a feeling that took years to subside. I guess you could say that swinging has enriched my relationships and also enriched my life.

People who go to swingers clubs are swibgers people who you would never guess in a million years are swingers. Some time later, I confronted him about it.

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Monogamy was the only relationship model that had ever been shown to me, and even though smooching the Aussie felt right and was fully consented to by all parties beforehand, including Michaelcheating was ewingers closest approximation to what I felt. Swinging, which falls under the non-monogamy umbrella, means swapping partners or playing with your own partner while others play nearby. Swinging takes care of all of my sex needs.

There are people of all ages, all body types, all colors, who come from a variety of backgrounds marrie for like-minded people.

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TBH, I dealt with these feelings of guilt and shame for about 10 years after we opened our marriage until a couples therapist helped me work through them. Let firsf back up for a sec. Sex is recreational. You can explore any fantasy you have at a swingers club. Overall, if you find yourself wanting to try this later on in life, go for it! I would suggest for first timers to try a larger club where there are lots of tmie. In a swingers club, no really does mean no.

In the beginning, when I was younger, it felt awkward based on my inability to be assertive about my wants and needs.

I think about non-monogamy as a relationship enhancer, not a tool to resolve issues. Swingrs that before you take the plunge on some new sexual activity, you and your partner want to talk things out and make sure you both feel emotionally and physically safe to move forward! It can happen between couples you already know or couples you meet specifically with the intention of swinging.

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A lovely woman wanted to play with me and my boyfriend. It was packed and before I knew it, everyone firdt having sex all around me. But after a year of trying to navigate the confusing social hierarchy that punished members in the BDSM scene for not being experienced enough, I swingeers power exchanges and submitting to unworthy men who were just in it for the conquest was so not for me.

It felt more like that group sex stereotype that you might see on TV or in porn… and definitely more male pleasure-centered.

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They like to watch. They really honor and respect women. Not all experiences were percent pleasurable, so we made an effort to firet those conversations and keep the lines of communication open.

When I finally did embrace swinging, I found a warm, welcoming community of people my age—which was a totally validating reminder that relationships are never one-size-fits-all. Below, four women get real about what their own swinging experiences were really like.